Clients have to pay $50 deposit, and a 25% deposit is required for ALL sessions 3 hours or longer. Deposits are applied towards final tribute amount. Tribute payments accepted by Mistress Sterling in cash at the start of the session, make sure you include a nice handwritten card.  Deposit is processed by acquiring a $50 gift card, via PayPal to, or via Square (found on Mistress Sterling's Contact page). This is a non-refundable fee if you cancel.

Gifts are not required. But for those who wish to demonstrate exceptional appreciation, know the following offerings always make Me smile:  Amazon Wish List or anything on My Wish List page.

BDSM Domination

These sessions include a wide variety of kinks and fetishes, including but not limited to; corporal punishment, humiliation, tease and denial, bondage, sensation play, sensory deprivation and objectification. For a comprehensive list, visit My Skills and Interests page.
$300-$400/hour, $450-$600/1.5 hours, $600-$800/2 hours, $900-$1200/3 hours, $1100-1400/4 hours. Rates may vary due to session complexity and preparation/clean up time.

Medical Sessions extra $100/hour.

Latex session extra $100/session.

Multiple shoe/wardrobe changes $50/change.

An extended Pre-Meeting in Public

For those who would like to meet first in public before booking a session, we will meet at a coffee shop to discuss your questions, ideas and concerns at a more leisurely pace. This is ideal for novices or those who perhaps have a bit more complex fantasies and/or detailed questions. Approximately 1 hour plus My coffee with a tribute of $100.

Phone consultation

This is wonderful for those who are planning to meet with Me for the first time, but cannot arrange a Pre-Meeting in person. You may discuss your interests and concerns with Me via phone on NiteFlirt. Please visit My Phone Sessions page for details.

Please note, I do not Skype, Kik, FaceTime, or Cam. Social media is a wonderful tool for self promotion, you can find me on Facebook, Twitter, FetLife, Whipplr, Instagram and Tumblr. Please do not try to engage Me in conversation on any of these sites. I prefer email and phone conversation. Please be respectful of My time, do not waste it by texting Me.

Pedicure Temptation

You will be allowed to join Me at a nail salon and watch Me indulge in a relaxing pedicure. You can look, but you cannot touch as this is time for Me to relax and enjoy. Approximately 2 hours with a tribute of $150 plus the cost of My pedicure.

Sissy Shopping

Need to update your sissy wardrobe and want a Woman’s expert advice? Let’s go shopping together and get you some new bras, panties, shoes, makeup and more. Tribute of $500 for approximately 3 hours of time.


If you want to be allowed to accompany me to a restaurant, I offer a reduced rate for time spent simply socializing. I enjoy getting to know my clients and the extra time for discussions often gives Me more insight into what you’re looking for in a session. Note that this is different from public play, which requires you to pay the full session tribute. You will be expected to pay for My meal, drinks, and time with a 25% deposit. Tribute is $100 per hour.

A Day with Mistress Sterling

Spend the day under My control with up to 8 hours of private time with 2 meal breaks. Tribute for this is $2,500 a 25% deposit is required.

An Overnight with Mistress Sterling

Spend the night in My studio, under My control. Tribute for this is $2,500, a 25% deposit is required.

Long Term Confinement

Time spent in my studio, caged or mummified (no other play and no attention from Me). Minimum session time is 3 hours. For a fulfilling experience, a 12 hour session is highly recommended. Discounted rate of $150/hour. A deposit of 25% for 3 hours or more.


I am a Professional Dominatrix NOT a prostitute. I do not provide any sexual or illegal services. I do not undress for sessions or conduct sessions in the nude. I do not conduct sessions that include activities with the word "job" in the description. I do not engage and do not condone the use of illegal and/or mind altering substance in session. I do not condone or provide inhalants. If I become aware that you are under the influence of any of the aforementioned substances, I will terminate the session, and your session fee will not be refunded.   The fees required, or money exchanged for legal adult personal services is simply for time and companionship ONLY. Anything else that may or may not occur is a matter of personal choice and personal preferences between two or more consenting adults of legal age and is not contracted for, nor is it requested to be contracted for in any manner. This is not an offer of prostitution. I do reserve the right to decline appointments as I deem necessary. By contacting me (either through phone or email) you agree to these terms and hereby agree that you are not part of any law enforcement agency using this website for entrapment or for arrest. This is a contract you agree to by contacting me.