New clients are required to pay a 25% deposit for their initial session. Deposits are applied towards final tribute amount. Tribute payments accepted by Mistress Sterling in cash at the start of the session, make sure you include a nice handwritten card.  Deposit is processed SquarePay (found on Mistress Sterling's Contact page). This is a non-refundable fee if you cancel.

Gifts are not required, but for those who wish to demonstrate exceptional appreciation, know the following offerings always make Me smile:  Amazon Wish List or anything on My Wish List page.

BDSM/ Domination

These sessions include a wide variety of kinks and fetishes, including but not limited to; corporal punishment, humiliation, tease and denial, bondage, sensation play, sensory deprivation and objectification. For a comprehensive list, visit My Skills and Interests page.

$400-$500/hour.  Rates may vary due to session complexity and preparation/clean up time. Multi-hour sessions are not discounted.

Medical Sessions extra $100/hour.

Latex session extra $100/session.

Multiple shoe/wardrobe changes $50/change.

Short Notice Appointments

If you are a repeat client and find yourself in need of an appointment with less than 24 hours notice, feel free to contact me. If you are  a client in good standing, I will do my best to fit you in.  At least a 3 hour lead time will be required. Please know, there are no guarantees that I will be able to accommodate you. My schedule is quiet full, on most days. If I am able to fit you in, I will charge an additional fee of $100/hr. for my trouble.

An extended Pre-Meeting in Public

For those who would like to meet first, in public before booking a session, we will meet at a coffee shop to discuss your questions, ideas and concerns at a more leisurely pace. This is ideal for novices or those who perhaps have a bit more complex fantasies and/or detailed questions. Approximately 1 hour plus My coffee with a tribute of $200. I will choose the venue.

Phone consultation

This is wonderful for those who are planning to meet with Me for the first time, but cannot arrange a Pre-Meeting in person. You may discuss your interests and concerns with Me via phone. Please visit My Phone Sessions page for details.

Please note, I do not Skype, Kik, FaceTime, or Cam. Social media is a wonderful tool for self promotion, you can find me on Facebook, Twitter, FetLife, and  Instagram. Please do not try to engage Me in conversation on any of these sites. I prefer email and phone conversation. Please be respectful of My time, do not waste it by texting Me.

Pedicure Temptation

You will be allowed to join Me at a nail salon and watch Me indulge in a relaxing pedicure. You can look, but you cannot touch as this is time for Me to relax and enjoy. Approximately 2 hours with a tribute of $250 plus the cost of My pedicure.

The Sissy Experience
(repeat clients only)

Need to update your sissy wardrobe and want a Woman’s expert advice? Let’s go shopping together and get you some new bras, panties, shoes, makeup and more. Tribute of $600 for approximately 3 hours of time.

Learn to serve Me, while dressed as My maid/ sissy. This is a full immersion experience. You will be dressed and in service for 8-10 hours. The experience will include meal prep and meal service for Me. It may include one shopping or meal outing. Some discrete public play will be included in the outing. Tribute for this is $3,000. A deposit of 25% is required.


If you want to be allowed to accompany me to a restaurant, I offer a reduced rate for time spent simply socializing. I enjoy getting to know my clients and the extra time for discussions often gives Me more insight into what you are looking for in a session. Note that this is different from public play, which requires you to pay the full session tribute. You will be expected to pay for My meal, drinks, and time with a 25% deposit. Tribute is $200 per hour.

The Vac Suit Experience

Spending time in the Vac Suit is a truly a unique experience. This is not for the beginner. This experience can be combined with electro-stimulation, milking and whole body, wet pulsation, as well as sensory deprivation and bondage. There are only a few of these suits that exist in the world, only a couple in the United States. Tribute for this is $600 per hour. A two hour minimum is recommended. A 25% deposit is required.

A Day with Mistress Sterling
(repeat clients only)

8 hour experience
Spend the day under My control with up to 6-7 hours of play time with one meal breaks, or one outing which may include a meal, or shopping. Tribute for this is $2,500 a 25% deposit is required.

10 hour experience

Spend the day under My control, with up to 8 hours of play time. Two meal breaks, or one outing, which may include a meal or shopping. The outing may include some very discrete public play. Tribute for this is $3,500. A 25% deposit is required.

12 hour experience

Spend the day under My control, with up to 10 hours of play time. Two meal breaks, and/or outings, and two hours of bound confinement/ sensory deprivation. Tribute for this is $4,800. A 25% deposit is required.

An Overnight with Mistress Sterling

(repeat clients only)

Spend the night in My studio, under My control. 8 hours of play, combined with bondage/confinement. Tribute for this is $3,000, a 25% deposit is required.

Long Term Confinement

Time spent in my studio, caged or mummified (no other play and no attention from Me). Minimum session time is 3 hours. For a fulfilling experience, a 12 hour session is highly recommended. Discounted rate of $200/hour. A deposit of 25% for 3 hours or more.


I am a Professional Dominatrix NOT a prostitute. I do not provide any sexual or illegal services. I do not undress for sessions or conduct sessions in the nude. I do not conduct sessions that include activities with the word "job" in the description. I do not engage and do not condone the use of illegal and/or mind altering substance in session. I do not condone or provide inhalants. If I become aware that you are under the influence of any of the aforementioned substances, I will terminate the session, and your session fee will not be refunded.   The fees required, or money exchanged for legal adult personal services is simply for time and companionship ONLY. Anything else that may or may not occur is a matter of personal choice and personal preferences between two or more consenting adults of legal age and is not contracted for, nor is it requested to be contracted for in any manner. This is not an offer of prostitution. I do reserve the right to decline appointments as I deem necessary. By contacting me (either through phone or email) you agree to these terms and hereby agree that you are not part of any law enforcement agency using this website for entrapment or for arrest. This is a contract you agree to by contacting me.